Jealousy has been around since the dawn of humanity and will be until the end of time. This damning thought stuck in my throat and cut me like a knife. That she, whom all my life I would love, should be another’s sweetheart. That’s why I have spent most of my life walking under that hovering cloud, jealousy, whose, acid raindrops blurred my vision and burned holes in my heart.
Typically, jealousy refers to the thoughts, feelings and behaviors that occur when a person believes a rival is threatening a valued relationship. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat.
All jealousy is caused by an overactive and misused imagination. Creating scenarios in your mind of what your partner is thinking or doing is the perfect way to torture your self. Yes however horrible it feels, it can be almost compulsive – it can feel impossible to keep jealous thoughts from your mind. A jealous man tortures himself without cause, morbid holding as he does, the success of another to constitute an evil for himself. Nevertheless, jealousy would be for less torturous if we understood that love is a passion entirely unrelated to our merits.
Jealousy is most evil when one repines at another’s spiritual good. It then said to be a sin again
st the Holy Ghost. It is likewise called to be a capital sin because of the other vices it begets. A mad devil and a dull spirit possess the jealous at the same time.
Most people dealing with jealousy think they are doomed to live with it forever. All of us might think that way. The reality is that we can stop Jealousy.
Make strategies that are related to emotion regulation, conflict management, cognitive change and ground rules for managing jealous competition. The most important thing to do is to first admit them and then attempt to overcome them. Replace jealousy with compersion or empathizing with a lover’s joy with another lover.
Everyone has a choice and there are always two ways of looking at it, but at the end of the day, admission of the problem and attempting vigorously to obtain solutions for the betterness of the relationship is the only way it can survive.
Typically, jealousy refers to the thoughts, feelings and behaviors that occur when a person believes a rival is threatening a valued relationship. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat.
All jealousy is caused by an overactive and misused imagination. Creating scenarios in your mind of what your partner is thinking or doing is the perfect way to torture your self. Yes however horrible it feels, it can be almost compulsive – it can feel impossible to keep jealous thoughts from your mind. A jealous man tortures himself without cause, morbid holding as he does, the success of another to constitute an evil for himself. Nevertheless, jealousy would be for less torturous if we understood that love is a passion entirely unrelated to our merits.
Jealousy is most evil when one repines at another’s spiritual good. It then said to be a sin again
st the Holy Ghost. It is likewise called to be a capital sin because of the other vices it begets. A mad devil and a dull spirit possess the jealous at the same time.Most people dealing with jealousy think they are doomed to live with it forever. All of us might think that way. The reality is that we can stop Jealousy.
Make strategies that are related to emotion regulation, conflict management, cognitive change and ground rules for managing jealous competition. The most important thing to do is to first admit them and then attempt to overcome them. Replace jealousy with compersion or empathizing with a lover’s joy with another lover.
Everyone has a choice and there are always two ways of looking at it, but at the end of the day, admission of the problem and attempting vigorously to obtain solutions for the betterness of the relationship is the only way it can survive.
1 comment:
haha. jealousy as my final exam. this is my first failure ever. :DD
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